Simple Things

 

Spiritual Resilience

 In Spiritual Resilience, author Sharla Goettl uncovers Nephi's insights for parents on how, as a teenager, he developed a strong testimony of Jesus Christ. His message will impact how you teach your children. You will learn to:

    Determine the next step in your situation.

    Discover your unique roll in God's plan.

    Fill the gaps in your faith.

    Motivate youth to make righteous choices.

    Act fearlessly by understanding your covenants.

    Feel confident you can succeed with Christ's  help.

Spiritual Resilience offers a blueprint for families to become spiritually prepared.

This is a great resource for everyone who works with  you. It will guide you, inspire you, and help youth become the best they can be. It's a wonderful combination of spiritual and family stories that have bound the author and her family to the gospel of Jesus Christ.

It's a must-read for parents and youth leaders.

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Fleeting Encocunters

I have a dear friend that has just compiled a new book. It's called Fleeting Encounters. She has collected stories from loved ones, including me, that will brighten your life as we continue to social distance from others. This is just what we all need to remember that our connections matter--even though they are brief.

It will brighten your life.

This collection of heartwarming stories shows how a brief encounter with a stranger can brighten someone’s day or even change their life. The encounters might be fleeting, but each leave behind a message of hope that will not soon fade away. 

Here are additional links, including Amazon to purchase the book.

https://www.amazon.com/FLEETING-ENCOUNTERS-Drienie-Hattingh-ebook/dp/B08N16R53D/ref=sr_1_1?crid=YWING1LDS8CW&dchild=1&keywords=fleeting+encounters&qid=1605367781&sprefix=Fleeting+en%2Cspecialty-aps%2C209&sr=8-1

 Stand Up to Sexting

This is my latest book. Heather Boynton and I co-authored this to help parents and kids open a conversation to navigate the possible pitfalls of social media. It's a great conversation starter with lots of example that kids will be able to relate to. 

If kids get involved in sexting, it can lead to:

• Anxiety and depression.
• It has become the new cyberbullying.
• It can begin with kids as young as twelve.
• Sexting messages and photos are not uncommon among middle school youth.
• Sexting has been linked to impulsive, risk-taking behavior.

Keep your kids healthy and happy. Keep your family conversations open.

For more helps, read these new blog posts.

https://parentinghighschoolers.com/sexting-and-your-teen-get-the-facts/

https://www.teenwiseseattle.com/sexting-in-the-teen-world/

Love Comes from Small and Simple Things

We show love through the small and simple things we do. Think back on your day. What small and simple things have you done today to show love. Maybe they’re so seemingly insignificant you didn’t even notice them.

• A glass of water for a child.
• A touch on the shoulder for someone you love.
• Wearing your mask to protect those you love.
• Cooking the vegetables for dinner—just right.
• Wave to a neighbor, walking their dog.

Giving those around you a chance to explore their world.

Love begets love.

Make the world a better place.

Share some love.

Pictures by Kya Boyd

How Can I Comfort Those Who Have Lost Loved Ones to Covid 19?

Nothing could be worse than to know you are dying and not be able to have your loved ones around you!

What a lonely feeling for those near death!

What a helpless feeling for loved ones!

What can we do to comfort those grieving?

Stop and think before you talk!

You can’t fix the situation with placating thoughts or ‘griefisms’ like: “You’ll get through this.” “Give yourself time.” “Find the blessings in this.” These statements, though meant kindly, shut down communication and drive the grieving person away.

Listen

It’s comforting to be able to share feelings and know someone hears our sorrow. Don’t offer suggestions. Each person grieves in their own way. Trust enough to know they will find their path through their burden.

Empathize

Understanding bonds us to each other. Being left alone with no one who will ‘hear’ the depth of our grief gives us the feeling of isolation—of being imprisoned with our own feelings.

Hug

Touch in times of sorrow can be healing. Right after my husband died, a neighbor stood on the doorstep and gave me a hug. Oh, how I needed that hug. I will never forget it. Touch rejuvenates and connects us in our loneliness.

The Pandemic Has Taught Me

Compassion for those suffering.

Empathy for grieving loved ones left behind.

Understanding about the fragility of existence.

Insight into myself and my purpose in life.

To slow down and enjoy quiet moments.

To make a phone call to say ‘I love you.’

Remember moments of connection.

To feel the beauty of the sunshine

Smell the newness of Spring.

To express gratitude for life.