My husband of 54 years passed away several months ago. I
used to take for granted the times we walked down the street holding hands or
the laughter we shared over a joke or a silly movie. I look at couples,
enjoying each other’s company in a wistful way now—wishing I’d enjoyed the last
moments we had together more fully.
I love the laughter in this picture. |
Here are some tips that make my hind-sight twenty-twenty:
1.
Cherish the moments you have together. You never
know when they’ll be gone.
2.
Say, “I love you,” “Thanks you,” “Please,” very
often.
3.
Laugh together.
4.
Snuggle close on a cold winter day, or hold
hands in the sunny park on a balmy day.
5.
Surprise each other with something just for fun
Nurture your relationship.
This caused a tear or two just thinking of you and how hard it must be to have lost your cherished companion. These thoughts were such a good reminder to enjoy all the precious moments that you have with that special one. I try to do that. I also worry some because my husband hasn’t had the best of health through the years and I wonder what our future holds. I will hold on tight to the moments. Loving thoughts and hugs for you today!
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